The Season’s Happiness

(If you are getting bored of me, don’t worry, Meaghan will be back soon with some fantastic travel stories to share.  I promise!)

For those of you who don’t live and work in BC, we have yet to go back to school because of a complex and messy strike in our teachers’ union (and because of a provincial government that is unwilling to budge or bargain).  It’s still uncertain times for public education in BC.  Teacher’s haven’t been working, and therefore haven’t been paid, since the middle of June.  Students didn’t get to finish off the old school year properly OR start off the new school year properly.  It’s tough times all around, really.

Last week’s post was about the uncertainty during this Back to School season.  Writing that post made me a little sad, because summer’s end and autumn’s beginning is by far my most favourite season of the whole entire year.  Back to School excitement definitely fuels my fire during this magical season of temperature changes and pumpkin harvests because it’s just part of the package during this time of year; however, this week little reminders that autumn is on its way have started pop up everywhere and now I am just extremely giddy over that fact that our air conditioning can be put to rest until next June.

The first (and quite possibly) most awesome thing about the season’s change:

Starbucks' seasonal drinks have arrived!

Starbucks’ seasonal drinks have arrived! My eyes literally shone with delight when I discovered this tidbit of information.

I promptly sent a very important text message to my friend, Karen, who knows what is UP when it comes to autumn seasonal changes.  We now have a weekly Jane Austen movie night put in place.



If I had a Pinterest board (I don’t, believe it or not) for autumn it would be full of comfy sweaters and tall boots, infinity scarves, Swedish farmhouse decor options and the occasional salted caramel mocha.

Here are the other small, yet utterly joyful and autumn-y things I’ve been enjoying this week in between picket shifts:

This is the view from my driveway.  Heavenly, right? A few more weeks and all the leaves in the forest behind our house will be brilliantly colourful.

This is the view from my driveway. Heavenly, right? A few more weeks and all the leaves in the forest behind our house will be brilliantly colourful.

Our first pumpkin harvest of 2014! Our vegetable garden wasn't quite as successful as last year's (our corn and peas had some serious issues...) These little cuties are called "Sweet Sugars" and one particular husband is quite stoked for homemade pumpkin pie.

Our first pumpkin harvest of 2014! Our vegetable garden wasn’t quite as successful as last year’s (our corn and peas had some serious issues…) These little cuties are called “Sweet Sugars” and one particular husband is quite stoked for homemade pumpkin pie.

I couldn't resist snapping this iPhone shot.  How cool is that one red leaved branch?

I couldn’t resist snapping this iPhone shot. How cool is that one red leaved branch?

And finally, road side flower and produce stands with my friend, Nicole.

And finally, road side flower and produce stands with my friend, Nicole. All these flowers, including the dahlias, for $8!  Can’t beat that.

This post is somewhat fluffy and has nothing to do with education, really.  That being said, it’s more about self-preservation for many of us teachers in BC right now.  I’m attempting to preserve my eternal optimism and joy for this gorgeous season by doing as many of my favourite seasonal things possible!  I hope you all can find some space in this mayhem to simply appreciate what we DO have.  Breathe deeply, fellow teachers.  We will and can get through this together.

Now go find a pumpkin spiced ANYTHING and treat yourself.



A Post about Uncertainty

Uncertainty seems like a great word to describe this “Back to School” season.  While we try to keep it light, joyful and inspirational here on our blog, there are times when the harsh truth of reality peeks through and when that happens, we do our best to acknowledge it in an acceptable manner. 

I’ve been going back to school for 22 years, granted the majority of those years have been in student-form.  This will be my third back to school season as a teacher and I can honestly say…I am not excited. 

I don’t know what’s wrong with me?  Usually at the start of August I’m ready to start lesson planning again! I’ve been to WalMart in the past week and I saw all the aisles full of school supplies, excited families checking items off lists, and I want to be those people because I LOVE back to school shopping, but I just can’t get there this year.  I think I am discouraged.  In my young teaching career I’ve never experienced a strike like we are going through right now.  In fact, in my entire career as a student in public education I’ve never experienced a strike like this.  I must admit that back in late June/early July when the media was on fire with teacher strike news I chose what I viewed and read very carefully.  I have a tendency to get anxious and worked up about these kinds of things and because I was just finishing one of the most challenging years of my life (thank you grade 8s, I love you!) I chose to take care of my self and not fully engage with the media reports.  Call it self preservation, if you will. 

And then the media went quiet and no one knew what the heck was going on all summer long.  And now we’re exactly one week away from potentially getting back to school and we STILL have no idea what’s going on.  To top all this off, I don’t have a job (yet).  I wasn’t actually expecting a job going into September because I know there are many people ahead of me who have more seniority than I do, so I wasn’t expecting to walk in to my own classroom on September 2nd; however, I WAS expecting to walk into a classroom on September 2nd and help a school with a start up subbing gig for a few weeks. 

I’m not even going to get into the financial piece because most people just don’t like reading about that.  Just know this: it’s a good thing I saved the majority of my paycheques all year long.  It’s also a blessing that my husband is not a teacher.  Enough said.

My non-teacher family members (ie. all of them) keep asking what I think will happen with this strike and my honest answer is, “I don’t know!”  I renewed my car insurance the other day and the car insurance lady asked me what I thought would happen.  I don’t know.  I ran into one of my dear students from this past year the other day, she’s so excited to go to high school, and she asked me what I thought would happen; I told her I didn’t know.  What I do know is that this whole situation is messy and unfair.

Now, in this last week of what should be our summer holiday, teachers are back on the picket lines (voluntarily).  Hmmm.  I don’t even know how I feel about that!?

I don’t really much about anything these days; however, when this email from a student I taught this past year popped into my inbox the other day I smiled.  It bothers me when people say this strike is NOT about the students, no matter what teachers say.  In my opinion, the only reason why I do this job and love this job is BECAUSE of the students.  I need to publicly thank my student for her impeccable timing and kind words – a reminder of why I chose this profession in the first place.




Your Secret Life

This post is somewhat of a silly, one-off, nonsensical kind of rambling.  What I would do if I wasn’t a teacher…

Some of you might think I’m nuts for bringing up this topic of discussion considering I have only been teaching for two years (but went to Uni for seven years to get here!)  Don’t get me wrong, I love and adore my career choice and wouldn’t change it for anything. But do you ever have those moments where you tap in to your secret life and think, “Yep – that’s EXACTLY what I would do”?  I definitely do.  Asking people (adults, young children, students, etc.) what they would do in their secret life is one of my most favourite questions to ask.  A long, long time ago I wrote a post about a fun advisory/CAPP activity I created about this very topic.  You can find that one HERE.

If you’ve been reading our blog for a while, you will likely know that my first ever teaching contract was a dance teaching job, which is still talked about in our house with a high-pitched, sing-song voice exclaiming: “best-job-everrrrrr”.

Photo courtesy of Nadine.

Photo courtesy of Nadine, who happened to walk into the studio one day and find us all like this.

This photo oozes awesomeness, creativity, athleticism, silliness (hello, child wearing green clown wig??), participation and plain ol’ good times!  I never felt so on top of the world as I did in this job.  I felt as if I owned that little studio and the students I was blessed to work with just filled up that space with their absolute INSANE energy every single day.  I witnessed students transform in this space in the time frame of 8ish short weeks (the school’s exploratory rotation schedule). I saw kids who were shy and quiet blossom into incredible leaders of their groups and go on to lead dances.  I saw kids who had a dancer within them shine through and become a rock star in the studio, while remaining a “behavioural challenge” in the classroom.  I saw kids who had no formal dance training whatsoever come into the studio, soak in all the energy we had to offer, roll with it and bravely try something new.   I saw one child in particular with a severe exceptionality come to dance class, go home, learn dances on her own, and return the following week(s) with new moves to teach us all.  At the end of the course rotation she performed, on her own, in front of her entire grade 8 class and did not miss a single beat.  The class was shocked and I was, of course, crying my eyes out next to the sound system.  After this girl finished her performance she proceeded to invite the girls in her class to join her while she led them through the dance moves.  The coolest part?  All those miracles I witnessed that year teaching dance did not come from me…they came from the kids because we had the space, time and flexibility to do and be what they wanted, while pumpin’ the jams as LOUD as we wanted.

You see what I mean? Best. Job. Ever.

Anyhow, moving on.  In my (not so) secret life I would definitely be a backup dancer for Beyonce OR a sweet choreographer, like NappyTabs from So You Think You Can Dance.  Don’t laugh – I’m being real!  Important to note: I’m not that good.  I’m not trying to tell you that I’m a good dancer…my sister trumps me in hip hop, although I can do a pretty solid second position demi-plie. Let’s just say being raised a rhythmic gymnast leaves little muscle memory space for twerking (to all my grades 8s who read this blog, yes I did just say that).  But I love to dance.  I love to move.  My brain just works in way that gets things when movement is involved.  Like how my husband can learn how to demolish a bedroom and rebuild it from the studs, electrical and all, just because he “sees it at work”.  I don’t get it when he draws a 2D floor plan and explains how the room is going to look once complete, but I DO get it when my living room (or couch, or car…) becomes a dance floor and my brain has the space to think in movement. My best ideas come to me while dancing for real, or in my head.  It’s all learning.

And when I get the chance to watch shows like So You Think You Can Dance I literally beam with joy and tears the entire time while couch dancing because it’s just so, so good.

Watch this:

This episode was aired last Wednesday and I’ve watched this dance approximately ten times a day since then.  The female dancer, Jasmine, is nuts.  Who moves like this!? And the creative genius behind the whole thing is the coolest couple on the planet, NappyTabs. Needless to say, I’ve book marked this dance to show to whichever dance club I end up running this year.

And this:

Two of my grade 8s from “the dance job year” learned this entire dance and performed for us – it was incredible.  This song became our unofficial theme song in the studio and if this ever happened in my school cafeteria, I would die happy.

There is just something about dance and teaching/dancing with young people that lights my soul on fire.  And with that I

One of the best nights of dancing in my life! Bare feet, ocean breeze, sandy "dance floor", all 53 guests participating, sweet playlist...three hours of nonstop dancing.  My legs were so sore I couldn't walk for a week.

One of the best nights of dancing in my life! Bare feet, ocean breeze, sandy “dance floor”, all 53 guests participating, sweet playlist…three hours of nonstop dancing. My legs were so sore I couldn’t walk for a week.

close this rambling post about what I would do in my secret life, if I wasn’t a teacher.  What would YOU do? Are you brave enough to share? I hope you all spend a few moments today thinking about how you can get more of your secret life passion involved in your real life jobs…work becomes much more like “work” that way!




Book Tale: The Invention of Wings

Along with summer comes a LOT of reading time! This is one of my favourite things about having time off. I try to read a little bit each night before bed but I usually only get through a page or two before I’m too exhausted to keep my eyes open. In the summer I can stay up reading as late as I want and it is awesome!

jpegThis book has been sitting in my bedside table drawer for a while, just waiting for a chance to be read. Sue Monk Kidd is one of my favourite authors and I have been holding onto this book for a while waiting for a chance to read it. It was worth the wait!

“The Invention of Wings” is an AMAZING story based on the Grimke sisters’ lives but with fictionalized characters that bring the story to life. The story follows Sarah Grimke and Hetty (Handful) throughout their lives starting when they were young girls. Handful was given to Sarah as a birthday gift, her own slave despite her wishes for abolition. The story follows them throughout their lives as they grow and change, sharing the tender friendship that is built in a strained world. The side through the eyes of Handful is beautiful but hardened with the sadness and despair of the truths of slavery. Sarah’s story is about her struggle to find a place in the world and to make change in a powerful way.

I was glued to every word of the story and could not put it down! I think it was one of the only times that I finished a book, read the whole author’s notes, and then proceeded to research about the story right away – I just couldn’t get enough!

In many ways, I related to Sarah Grimke’s character (obviously I am not a pioneer in abolition and women’s rights, nor am I trying to claim that I’ve gone through even a fraction of what she and her sister did) because of her strong will to make the world a better place. There were so many moments when I could just completely see myself in Sarah’s shoes – unsure of the best course of action. Being born into a middle class white world but having this deep unrelenting feeling that you can be a part of the change in the world, that’s where I relate the most.

I cannot recommend this book enough, it sparked a passion in me to be the best of who I am and to push myself past the dominant world view that it is all too easy to look through. It was a reminder of the sacrifices that will need to be made in order to make change in the world and it was also a reminder that change needs to happen – we have come a long way since abolition and women’s suffrage but we still have a long way to go.

Sue Monk Kidd, you did it again – you opened my mind and my heart. Please read this book! I promise  you will be enthralled by the characters and the story.


Photography Fun

One hobby Joel and I share is photography.  Three summers ago we bought our camera (Cannon T3i) because we wanted to be able to take some of our own pictures during the months leading up to our wedding festivities (we had three main wedding events over the course of 5 months…maybe I’ll tell that story one day).  Since purchasing our camera we’ve bought and sold various lenses and bits and pieces for it, studied a few photography courses and we’ve taken TONS of photos of people, places and things.  Some of our most favourite photo sessions have been with our dear friends, the Peros.  These days we are finding it challenging to take out the “real” camera; iPhones and Instagram filters always seem to be the most convenient.  I love a good photo sesh with friends to remind me to put the tiny iPhone down and take out the real deal…it’s way more fun!

Yesterday I took 500 photos in just over an hour.  I sifted through all of them in the afternoon and got 42 great shots! Here are some favourites from yesterday’s fun photoshoot:


Aren’t they a beautiful family!?

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Camera clicking noises make for excellent baby entertainment!

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She was really into her sand digging yesterday.

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This little guy gets cuter every day.

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She actually requested to go home to bed post photo shoot. Models work hard, you know?

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Here are some photos I’ve taken of our favourite kids in sessions past.

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Learning how to put on shoes!

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Taken a few weeks before baby brother arrived!

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Baby brother – one week old.

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Baby brother – one week old.


My girl when she was just a tiny thing.

We need to do photos of these kids more often than we have been lately! Love them!


Meaghan’s Kitchen

Sorry for the lack of posts lately… well actually, to quote our lovely middle school friends: sorry, not sorry! We have been busy enjoying our summers without a lot to write about.


My day today was spent enjoying this amazing poolside view…

The weather has been fantastic here and spending a lot of time relaxing outside is a must whenever possible! Besides that I have been working out, finishing up my summer courses and  running a leadership course at the rec centre I used to work for which has been a blast! That also means I got to work with Ryan for a couple of weeks which is fun but it means we have to be more on top of things like lunches and morning routines since we usually leave at different times. So because of that and because I have a lot more energy in the summer I’ve been cooking/food prepping up a storm!

Here are some of the favourites in our household lately:

1. Salad Bar Lunches

20140713-191155-69115151.jpgWe have been doing this one quite a bit this year because it’s so easy and delicious! It takes a bit of time to prep on Sunday but makes things so easy for the rest of the week that it’s definitely worth it. We just cut up celery, peppers, cheese, avocado, apples, and cucumber (or whatever other veggies are around), hardboil some eggs, and wash some lettuce (and leave it in the salad spinner for ease). The night before or morning of we just each toss whatever we want into a big contatiner, bring some dressing and we are good to go!

2. Fruit/Veggie “Chips”

We don’t have a dehydrator but I’ve been experimenting a bit with making different fruit and veggie chips over the past while. I just turn the oven on to 200 and bake them for a long time. Our favourites have been banana chips, yam chips, and carrot fries – although everything has been delicious. If you haven’t tried carrot fries yet please get on it – Now! They are just so good! This stuff takes a long time so I usually only do it on a day when I have laundry/coursework/chores that need to get done so I’m home for a while.

3. Favourite “Healthy” Cookies

This recipe 20140713-191156-69116974.jpgI found a while ago but have just been absolutely loving! No sugar, so easy, so good! I love that you only need four ingredients and they are ingredients we pretty much always have around the house. Peanut butter, banana, oats and chocolate chips… so good! (They don’t last as long as regular cookies so keep them in the fridge or eat them fast!)





4. “Healthy Nachos”

I got the idea for this recipe here. For these nachos I used the yam chips I made and then topped them with black beans, onion, peppers, and cheddar cheese. Finish them off with a little guacomole and they were delicious! (I happened to use wayyyy too many black beans so I compensated by using wayyyyy too much cheese to hold it altogether – delicious but much less healthy than they were meant to be!)


Do you have any delicious summer recipes for us to try?

What other things have you been doing this summer?





World Class Athletes

This year I taught many students who truly inspired me.  I know stating this sounds very “cliche teacher” of me, but one student in particular reminds me of me when I was her age.  For the sake of this student’s privacy I will not and cannot divulge any information about her, but in this post I want to tell you about her goals and dreams because her intentions helped me become a better teacher this year.  Let’s call her “Beth”.

From the moment I met Beth I knew she was the kind of person who required a true teacher-student connection in order to achieve both academically and socially.  I don’t know how exactly I picked up on the “connection vibes” Beth was giving off; let’s just call it instinct.  Thankfully, I trusted my instincts and can honestly say, I had a fantastic year with this student.  This year I made sure I always had time for Beth, always tried to answer her questions, always put her in her place when she needed to be told and always made sure to laugh with her every single day.  Beth will be the first to tell you that she doesn’t have the cleanest record when it comes to grades or behaviour, but this year she rose to the occasion and became an excellent leader in our class.  If we had written our term 3 report cards I am confident Beth would have achieved straight As.  This girl is going into grade 9 on cloud 9 and she should be very proud of herself (she is, trust me).

Did I mention Beth is a superb athlete? Well, she is.  She is as athletic as they come and her sport of choice is rugby.  Beth got accepted into a special rugby program for her high school years and her whole support team could not be more excited for her because her dream of playing for the Canadian National Women’s Rugby Team will be supported and fostered throughout her increased training during the next four years.  Beth’s focus and determination for her sport is where she and I draw some parallels.

As a child/teenager I spent six years competing as a nationally and internationally (in the States) ranked rhythmic gymnast.  I think I’ve talked about that on our blog before, so I won’t go into too much detail.  However, everything I did was for for the sake of my gymnastics training.  While I never made national team, I competed for a spot on that team several times during my athletic career.  My hopes and dreams and goals for my gymnastics were very similar to Beth’s intentions for her rugby.  The photo below shows me stretching at home, constantly working to be better.  Beth runs 10k on the weekends to help increase her cardio.  I used to write down my sport specific goals and post them on my bedroom wall – Beth does the same thing, in fact, she told me she even framed her written down goals.  Nothing like having your life plans stare you in the face every single day, hey!? The little book of quotes pictured below was given to me by one of my closest gymnastics friends when we were little, but now it’s time to pass it along to someone else.


As athletes I believe it is extremely important to have good role models as inspirations; these people help keep our goals aligned and our fire fueled.  As a gymnast I had many great athletes I looked up to and I was even fortunate enough to meet some of those people,which was incredibly exhilarating!  During the last month of school I was trying to get a local national team rugby player to come into my class and speak to my students; however, with a stacked tournament schedule and school ending two weeks earlier than anticipated, that guest presentation didn’t come to fruition.  I planned to set this presentation up especially for Beth and the few other grade 8 rugby girls I taught, but I never announced it to my students because in the back of my mind I knew there was a chance it wouldn’t happen.  And then our local rugby star, Jess, went above and beyond for my student, Beth.

Jess plays rugby for the Canadian Women’s Team; in fact, she was just named a member of the Canadian World Cup team, coming up this August in Paris, France.  I know Jess from my lululemon days and because I still frequent that store quite often we’ve kept in touch.  When it became apparent that Jess’ presentation to my class wasn’t going to happen I asked her if I could get a signed team photo from her for Beth.  What Jess did was even cooler:


It’s tough to see the signatures so let’s get even closer:


Jess got the girls on her team who live in BC to sign a jersey for Beth! Now, I’ve told Beth’s family about this exciting little gift I have for her, but Beth has NO idea what’s coming her way, so before she leaves for camp tomorrow I’m going to swing by her house and drop it off for her.  I can’t wait to see her expression when a) her teacher shows up at her front door and b) said teacher comes bearing super cool gifts.

To Jess and the teammates who signed this jersey for Beth, thank you thank you thank you from the bottom of my heart.  Believe it or not, you women are incredible role models for some young, aspiring athletes.  And Jess, wishing you the best of amazing memories and fun in Paris this summer!

To Beth, who may or may not read this post tonight, keep chasing your dreams because you are worth it.  You are going to become an incredible rugby player over the next few years and I can’t wait to watch your games next year!

And to everyone else who has sports related dreams, goals and intentions, whether they’re recreational or highly competitive, keep seeking inspiration.  Keep working to maximize your potential.  Dig deep and sweat lots during training.  Thanks for being awesome role models to us all!




The Road Trip

A good road trip is among my list of top ten favourite things in life.  When Joel and I first started dating he used to pick me up for lunch from high school and we’d drive around our small town and eat burgers or Quiznos.  Ten years later (yes, we’ve been together for a decade) driving with Joel is still one of my all time favourite things to do, which is why whenever we drive anywhere I make him drive, even if we are in my car.

Some of my favourite road trips I’ve been on include, but are not limited to: Côte d’Azur (2012) for ten days, Zac Brown Band concert at The Gorge in Washington state (2013), and our annual road trips up to Shuswap Lake where my inlaws live.


FRANCE (2012)

We went to France for three weeks in May 2012 for our “honeymoon”.  I was just finishing Uni at that time and because Joel married a poor student (lucky him) he got a generous tax return that year, which is how we went to France.  Thanks to our dear friends who own a house in southern France, we were based out of a tiny little town called Prayssac.  We rented a car for ten days, named him Jean-Pierre and hit the coast.  Among our stops were the cities/countries of Marseille, Cassis, St. Raphael, St. Tropez, Nice, Monaco, San Remo (Italy), Carcassonne and Toulousse.  I absolutely loved this route by rental car as opposed to train because we could stop and go as we pleased, listen to and sing along to whatever music we wanted and bring our own pillows with us.  Here is a clip of our most favourite road in southern France, leading us from Cassis to Bandol:

(PS – does anyone watch the British car show, “Top Gear”? We are avid fans, hence the “Babe Gear”…lame, I know).

Getting double parked is all part of the fun experience of road trippin'.  I'm supposed to be doing a "thumbs down".

Getting double parked is all part of the fun experience of road trippin’. I’m supposed to be doing a “thumbs down”.



We are country music fans (and so is Meaghan, so haters you keep hatin’, but we’re just gonna sing louder!) and Zac Brown was on our concert bucket list for quite a while; therefore, I’m sure you can imagine the excitement when Zac Brown announced their concert at The Gorge.  Big deal for us, so we bought our tickets, dug out our passports and planned our lighting quick road trip that totaled 2.5 days and 1050 kilometers.  One of the highlights of this trip, which took place in mid-September, was the unexpected 36 degree weather on concert day! One of the slight letdowns was that after we purchased our concert tickets Zac Brown announced they’d be performing in Vancouver the day after their show at The Gorge.  I was pretty angry for about 15 minutes before I realized half the fun of our experience was going to be our mad dash from Victoria to Quincy.  Trust me, the drive was worth it.  Zac Brown played for three hours without a break and we stood and sang at the top of our lungs the entire time.  I cried twice.



 THE LAKE (annual)

Joel and I grew up in the Okanagan, which essentially means our summers revolved around how much boating we could cram in.  Joel’s summertime childhood was spent on Shuswap Lake at his grandma’s cabin.  Now Joel’s parents and his extended family have a plot of land on Shuswap that has been subdivided and developed into five lots with “cabins” on them (I say “cabin” because really those structures are legitimate houses).  Since moving to Victoria, we usually get up to The Lake twice per year and the drive is entirely worth it.  Not only do we get to hang out with Joel’s fabulous fam/relatives, but we always get some hiking, sailing, swimming, relaxing in as well.  Now that my parents live on the island I am extremely grateful to have Joel’s parents in the Okanagan because they’re keeping us tied to our hometown.  Joel’s parents are never allowed to move (you hear that, inlaws!?)  The Lake is so glorious in any season – we love it there.


See what I mean? Glory.


Last but not least, road trips require a lot of singing and car dancing.  It is important to have a quality soundtrack for long drives, so you can imagine what I’ll be doing in the next few days in preparation for our Canada Day 2014 road trip.  Here are a few of our singalong “must haves” for this year’s Canada Day road trip:

One of us loves Ke$ha the most and let me assure you, it's not me.

One of us loves Ke$ha the most and let me assure you, it’s not me.

Happy Canada Day long weekend everyone! Drive safe and sing loudly if you’re road trippin’.  See you next week,



Stronger For It

Just as Karley predicted… My race recap for our first “non-teaching” post of the summer. You can read more about why we are choosing to not blog about teaching things for a while here.

This past weekend I did it. I ran my first full marathon. And it was… hard, thrilling, excruciating, upsetting, and uplifting. But I did it! And in the end setting out to accomplish something that once seemed relatively impossible is a pretty amazing feeling!

If you have run a full marathon then you will probably understand what I mean here when I say that it took me by surprise just how hard it was. I’ve said this to a few people who haven’t run one and have been met with the “um ya of course it was.” But I was expecting it to be hard, I was expecting to feel like I couldn’t finish sometimes, and I was expecting it to take a lot of internal strength to keep pushing. But it was so much more than that.

I expected to find the first half of the course relatively enjoyable, and I did!


I expected to find it hard to push up the hill at 25 km, but I did that one with ease.

I expected to have people make me smile and laugh and cry along the way, and they did.

I expected to get a surge of energy seeing my amazing support crew, and I definitely did!


I expected to enjoy the energy of the crowd so much that I wouldn’t even need my iPod, but I wouldn’t have made it through without my music.

I expected to enjoy the route through a beautiful city, but I found myself discouraged by the amount of tunnels and highways.


I expected to find the joy in the moment, and so often I did.

I expected to push hard in the last kilometre, but I walked up the final hill choking back the tears.

I expected to cross the finish line with a feeling of complete satisfaction, but I only felt the exhaustion.

The marathon was proof to myself that I am strong and I can withstand a lot. Not once in that entire race did I doubt that I could finish the whole thing (although I was definitely doing the math to figure out if I could just walk the rest at a few points). That feeling when your body and mind are screaming at you to stop but your heart tells you to keep on going? That’s the moment where you realize the power of that inner strength.

It’s hard to describe the mixed emotions that I feel after this journey from deciding I would do a marathon back in December, through the four months of training, up to that finish line… But I am so happy that I took those first steps.

I learned to dig deep. I learned to push hard. And I am stronger for it.

And marathon number two? I’m coming for you someday!








Switching the Focus

Things have gone pretty quiet over here on Tale of Two Teachers.  We didn’t officially plan to stop posting, we just kind of stopped.  We could blame it on this teachers’ strike and all the excessive drama that’s stemmed from it, we could blame it on the super emotional and impromptu “end of year celebration” day we had to whip up on a night’s notice last week, we could blame it on the fact that summer vacation is just around the corner.  But if we’re honest, we’re just so tired.  So, so exhausted.

For both of us, and likely many other teachers in BC, keeping up with the incessant Facebook and other social media related teachers’ strike news is essentially a full time job in itself!  Seriously, if I sit at my computer with my Facebook feed open, new things pop up every few minutes.  Then add everyone’s opinions and emotions into the mix of this political mess and it’s almost a bit too much.  As we’re both inexperienced in the terms of teacher strikes, the past month of job action (and escalation of job action) has run these two new teachers to the ground.

We’ve decided that we will write a year end teaching related post today and then for the summer, or at least a decent chunk of the summer, we will become “lifestyle bloggers” here on Tale of Two Teachers.  We aren’t concerned if people read our lifestyle posts or not, but we do want to keep writing and just need a break from teaching for a while.  We did a similar thing over Spring Break this year.  We hope you enjoy our lifestyle posts, but if you’re more into the teacher posts we write, we wish you an awesome summer and we’ll catch up with you later in August!

Q&A with Karley

Best moment this year…  I had many stellar moments this year with my class, but last week I was given a letter and a gorgeous piece of artwork from one of my toughest, most challenging, most loveable and adorable students.  The letter had me in insta-tears (surprise, surprise).  The student who wrote me the letter has faced extreme adversity, but was able to reflect upon the year as an opportunity of personal growth and change.  It floors me to realize that a 13 year old can be so cognitive of their own social-emotional development throughout the course of ten school months, and yet I am incredibly honoured to be the recipient of such a beautiful, honest piece of writing.  This particular student will remain in my heart for a long, long time.

Biggest challenge this year… The last four weeks of job action (and escalation) have been challenging.  I think this whole job action experience has made me more aware of how public and political my job actually is.  I don’t really know where I stand with those mixed emotions right now; I need more time to let this all settle and resonate.  Ending the year on this abrupt, “just kidding you don’t get to do any fun stuff with your class” note is pretty uncool, in my opinion.  Un.  Cool.

How I’ve grown as a teacher throughout the year… HA! If you haven’t already, go back and read the letter to my class that I wrote and read to them on our last day together.  If this letter is not a reflection on how I’ve changed as a teacher this year, I’m not quite sure how else to describe it.  I think what I learned the most this year is tolerance and patience.  I now know that if I can not only survive, but TEACH a class like the class I had this year, I can do absolutely anything.  I’m not kidding.

Current mantra… I actually don’t have a manta right now.  I am pretty zoned out of the whole school thing, to be quite honest (thank you teachers’ strike for that abrupt mind shift).

Plans for the break…  Not too much, actually.  A few road trips up to see my in-laws, who live on Shuswap Lake.  Some serious house renovations.  Some boating adventures with my parents, who now live a 20 min drive from my house.  Reading.  A lot of reading.  Oooh – and I want to bust out my grandma’s old sewing machine, find a YouTube tutorial on how to thread it (it’s been years, like since grade 9) and then I want sew some yellow chevron patterned curtains.  It’s no vaca to Indonesia, but hey ;)

Goals/intentions for the new school year… Unlike Meaghan, I haven’t given this too much thought yet.  My mind is still recovering from the insanity that was this end-of-year debacle, and I didn’t really spend much time this year thinking about what I want to do next year.  I was pretty good at “living in the moment” this year because I didn’t really have a choice; up until about February I was just trying to survive! I guess my only intention is to get a full time job for next year.  I don’t care where I work, I don’t care the grade level I work with, I don’t care which subjects I teach/don’t teach…I’m open for anything.  So open that in fact I’ve applied for 62 jobs knowing quite well that I very likely will not get one in this round of postings, or the next round.  My hope is for late August, but even then, I’ll take a September posting too!


Q&A with Meaghan

Best moment this year…  Ahhh so tough! I think it was saying goodbye to that first group I had in the fall because although goodbyes are hard and awful, those were the strongest relationships I have ever built as a teacher and I worked so dang hard to get where I got with them. Plus, it put me in a very reflective place and I realized just how much I had learned from them.

Biggest challenge this year…  Looking at the big picture. This year was full of some extreme lows and highs which often made it difficult to really look at the big picture. I am so happy with all of the opportunities I was given but in the moment it felt very frustrating to not understand why things were going the way they were.

How I’ve grown as a teacher throughout the year… I can’t even describe how much I’ve changed as a teacher this year. One of the biggest changes I’ve found is in my confidence, even though I’m a new teacher I still can speak up and have a say when it comes to what I think should be done in different situations. Last year I really took a back seat when it came to sharing my opinion but I am feeling more and more comfortable and confident in sharing what I think I/we should do.

Current mantra… One step at a time.

Plans for the break… I have a VERY exciting break coming up but first and foremost – relax! This has been a really tough end to a great year and I need a break. I am running a youth leadership course for a couple of weeks (yes this is work – but it’s work that I truly LOVE to do!) and we have a bunch of weekend trips planned. The two biggest things for the break are my brother’s wedding and a three week trip to Indonesia! So excited!!!!!

Goals/intentions for the new school year… To change my teaching practice in some big ways – I want to become more hands on (manipulatives, interactive journals) with math, I want to try a centres based approach in French, I want to “re-invent” the fitness run for PE (stay tuned for my ideas on that one), and I want to continue to make the centre of my teaching practice focused on Creativity, Passion, and Compassion.


Thanks everyone for your readership and support during the last ten months of school! Stay tuned (if you want) for our lifestyle posts, coming up soon.  I have a sneaking suspicion the first lifestyle post might be about a certain someone’s first marathon…just a hunch.